Hi Everyone,
As I write, top of the UK Box
Office is The Jungle Book – a Disney adventure for all the
family; which does justice to (and perhaps even eclipses) it's
classic 1967 predecessor.
Groundbreaking visual effects are
accompanied by great story-telling, an engaging central performance
from newcomer Neel Sethi (as Mowgli), and brilliant voice-work from
the likes of Bill Murray, Lupita Nyong'o, Idris Elba, and Sir Ben Kingsley. In
short, it's a thrilling adventure and really good fun. My “film of
the year” so far.
To change the subject for a moment,
I have a friend who often arrives to things late, and he is eager to
try and get on top of the problem. So, this got me thinking, and I came
up with a dozen suggestions for him to get his teeth into – and
(hopefully) start getting on top of the problem. I thought I would
publish them here, in case they are of interest to anyone else.
12
Tips to Tackle Lateness
Maybe you or a friend (or family
member) have a problem with lateness; regularly failing to arrive at
an appointment or event on time. Well, perhaps the following twelve
tips will help.
Here
are six ideas that can really make a difference:-
1) Aim to be Early
Don't plan to get to an appointment a
little late or even on time. Aim to get there at least 10-15 minutes
early. Say, for example, you are expected at a meeting at 2pm; aim to
arrive at the venue at 1.45pm or even 1.30pm. (Take a book or
magazine to read in the event that you arrive with plenty of time to
spare.)
2) Honour your First Commitment
If you have arranged to do something
and/or be somewhere – don't give in to or be swayed by more recent
things that come up (apart from serious emergencies). And if
possible, do not entertain the friend or relative who unexpectedly
turns up on your doorstep. Politely bid them adieu, and text them
later to arrange a different day. Even if a more enjoyable
opportunity arises, try to honour the previous commitment if you can.
(In the long run, this will lead to your being thought of as a more
reliable person).
3) Allow More Journey Time
If you are in the habit of
miscalculating – and not allowing enough journey time; you may like
to try the following. Estimate the time it will take you to reach
your destination, double it, then add another ten minutes on top.
This total gives you a lot more travelling time. To put it in a
nutshell; leave home much earlier!
4) Reduce Your
Responsibilities
Important (especially as we get
older) is slowing down a little and reducing our work-load. Are you
trying to cram in too many activities? Don't agree to take so much
on. Learn to say “No” to other people; if that's what you feel
you need to do. Reduce your commitments overall, and allow yourself a
little more quality “Me” time.
5) Don't Take Too Much Time
Getting Ready
If you tend to shilly-shally as you
are preparing to leave your home, practice getting into a more
efficient and faster routine. Turn off computers in plenty of time
and don't take too long in the bathroom. In short, don't be late
exiting your front door.
6) Improve Your Time-Keeping
Some people who are habitually late
misjudge and underestimate the passage of time. You may like to test
yourself and practice seeing if you can judge correctly when a minute
or two has elapsed. Do an activity (such as reading the newspaper)
for what you think is five minutes. Then stop reading and look at
your watch. Did you guess right? Here's one article that discusses
our perception of time passing and refers to similar experiments :-
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/07/psychology-lateness_n_4229057.html
If arriving late is driving you
crazy, you may find that - by employing these six tips - you are
quite simply never late again!
Here
are six additional tips you also might like to try:-
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Pretend the appointment you have to go to starts earlier then it really does. If your appointment is 11.15am, you can pretend to yourself that it's at 11am.
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Consider adding a “buffer” event. For example, when I travel by public transport to visit the dentist - I actually make for a café near the surgery for a leisurely cuppa first. If my dental appointment is at 2pm, I plan my journey to arrive at the café at 1pm. If my train is cancelled and I have to wait for the next; thus arriving in the area at 1.30pm or 1.45pm – no harm done. Adding a “buffer” gives you more leeway.
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And speaking of trains, if you are making a railway journey; why not consult a railway timetable or journey planner in advance; and decide to take the train before the one you were going to get?
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If your journey involves taking a bus; there are mobile apps, such as On the Buses for Android and BusMate for Apple devices, that can help you stay on top of things by furnishing you with up-to-date arrival times.
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When meeting a friend somewhere or arranging getting a lift; agree a meeting time a little earlier than you might have done. Don't cut things too fine.
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Plan out the events of the day so that you are in control of them; and they are not in control of you! Take heart! You can do it! Good luck!
© 2016 - Mal van London
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It's a great month for new
blockbusters - as there are at least four spectacular movies all
(no-doubt) hoping to supplant films like The Jungle Book and
Captain America: Civil War
in the box-office top ten. First
of all we have X-Men: Apocalypse – which opens May 18th
–
and seeks to introduce us to a bunch of young actors new to the
franchise (as well as showcasing established players such as James
McAvoy, Jennifer Lawrence, and Michael Fassbender). Then, on May 27th we have
a sequel to Tim Burton's 2010 hit Alice in Wonderland (starring
Mia Wasikowska, Johnny Depp, Helena Bonham Carter, Anne Hathaway, and
others).
Just a few days later, on May 30th, there are two
very different fantasy adventures being released. The first is the latest foray into
the world of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and is called Out of
the Shadows. The second is the start of another would-be
franchise (if the movie does well) – Warcraft: The Beginning.
Warcraft is directed by David Bowie's son Duncan Jones; whose
previous films as director include Moon and Source Code.
These were very good movies – so perhaps Warcraft will have some
substance to it; rather than just being (as is sometimes the case) a rather tedious action flick. We'll have to wait and see.
X-Men: Apocalypse. © 2016
Twentieth Century Fox Film Corporation. All Rights Reserved
The
major films opening here in the UK in May 2016 are: A
Hologram for the King, Alice Through the Looking Glass, Angry Birds,
Bad Neighbours 2 (aka Neighbors 2: Sorority Rising), Everybody Wants
Some!!, Florence Foster Jenkins, Green Room, I Saw the Light, Love &
Friendship, Money Monster, Our Kind of Traitor, Robinson Crusoe (aka
The Wild Life), Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Out of the Shadows,
Thomas & Friends: The Great Race, Top Cat Begins, Warcraft: The
Beginning, Whiskey Tango Foxtrot, and
X-Men: Apocalypse.
More
limited or “Key Cities” releases include: Bobby,
Departure, Heart of a Dog, Journey to the Shore, Kill Command, Mon
Roi, Mustang, The Call-up, These Final Hours, The Seventh Fire, and
Truman.
And
there are a number of other
limited releases that have
been given a small feature of their own my May 2016 newsletter. These
are: A Beautiful Planet, Cabin Fever, Knight of Cups,
Miniscule: Valley of the Lost Ants, Sing Street, The Darkness, The
Daughter, The Price of Desire, The Silent Storm, and
The Trust.
Note:
The Free State of Jones - mentioned in the May 2016
ODEON magazine as being released on May 27th – has been
delayed to 9th September 2016.
Here is a link to my latest
newsletter (which is a download of about 16MB):-
If you're intending to catch any of
the new releases at the cinema this May, I hope you have a great
time. If you're going back to
see The Jungle Book for a third time (like me) I
equally hope
you have a great time. Happy
viewing!
(Here are the trailers for most of the above mentioned
films:-
A Hologram for the King
Alice Through the Looking-Glass
Angry Birds
A Beautiful Planet
Bad Neighbours 2
Bobby
Cabin Fever
Departure
Everybody Wants Some!!
Florence Foster Jenkins
Green Room
Heart of a Dog
I saw the Light
Journey to the Shore
Kill Command
Knight of Cups
Love and Friendship
Miniscule
Mon Roi
Money Monster
Mustang
Our Kind of Traitor
Robinson Crusoe
Sing Street
The Call-Up
The Darkness
The Daughter
The Price of Desire
The Seventh Fire
The Silent Storm
The Trust
These Final Hours
Thomas & Friends
Top Cat Begins
Truman
The Trust
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot
X-Men: Apocalypse
A Hologram for the King
Alice Through the Looking-Glass
Angry Birds
A Beautiful Planet
Bad Neighbours 2
Bobby
Cabin Fever
Departure
Everybody Wants Some!!
Florence Foster Jenkins
Green Room
Heart of a Dog
I saw the Light
Journey to the Shore
Kill Command
Knight of Cups
Love and Friendship
Miniscule
Mon Roi
Money Monster
Mustang
Our Kind of Traitor
Robinson Crusoe
Sing Street
The Call-Up
The Darkness
The Daughter
The Price of Desire
The Seventh Fire
The Silent Storm
The Trust
These Final Hours
Thomas & Friends
Top Cat Begins
Truman
The Trust
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot
X-Men: Apocalypse